A Guide To Love And Relationships
A Look At The Dynamics Of Love &
Relationships In The Modern World
Friendship in Love and
Relationships
Friends are a form of relationship built
on different types of love. When man and woman joins in
love and relationship, intimacy labors throughout the
arrangement, however in friendship a different type of
intimacy exists that makes the relationship work.
Friendship, as intimate relationships work with the
exception that sex is not in the arrangement in some
instances. Some friends join in friendship and later
commit to sexual relations, thus leading to commitment or
else separation.
Friendships that are long lasting usually
have the ingredients to make the relationship work.
Friends may cause each other agitation, frustration, or
unintentional harm down the road in the relationship, yet
the two will work together to make it work by finding a
resolve.
Friendship is a form of commitment
between two or more people, and often friends join in
activities, entertainment, and communication. True
friends will prove true to the end of the relationship.
Friends will not interfere with each other’s life, unless
the friend sees the need to address an issue that is
causing the friend harm, or in the making of causing
him/her harm.
True friends in love and relationships
will not hold back any punches when addressing issues
with friends. While the friend will not hold back any
punches, he/she will use consideration of the person’s
feelings and emotions when addressing issues. Friends
have your back, which is a symbol of love displayed on
their part, and friends that endure throughout the trials
and tribulations of the relationship, show love since
long-suffering and self-control are
visual.
Friends in love and relationship may
fight at times, but both parties will apologize for
his/her part that instigated the disagreement. Friends
will tell you when you are wrong, thus again not holding
back any punches, while considering
you.
Friends that develop into intimate
relationships, often work through the arrangement
regardless of the storms laid on their plates. Friendship
before intimacy is smart, since the two have an overview
of the others behaviors, habits, personality, skills, et
cetera.
Love and relationships built on true
friendship will last through habits, behaviors,
personality flaws, et cetera, providing violence or
repeated actions of inconsideration and disrespect is
ongoing.
When mates disrespect each other, or show
inconsideration ongoing, thus, the relationship will
fail, since friendship, love and elements that compose
love are lacking.
Disrespect expands further than most
people think. Thus, learning beliefs, traditions, and
standards is smart when considering love and
relationships. Thus, starting out as friends will help
you see through the person’s behaviors, habits and
personality, what makes him or her up as a person. The
makeup of the person will include an insight of
standards, traditions, and beliefs.
Beliefs are tricky, since nowadays
standards are lower than ever, thus beliefs are often
overlying inconsistency and dishonesty. When a person has
lack of evidence to support their beliefs, thus faulty
thinking is underlying the mind.
Beliefs are either concrete or
superficial. To convince me that a person is worth my
time, the person better have some realness in light.
Thus, superficial beliefs rarely stand firm, thus the
person is obviously heading in the wrong direction, and
thus the relationship may or may not
last.
As you can see, what determines the
outlook of friendship, love and relationships depends on
the makeup of the persons involved?
What about compatibility, where does it
play in friendship, love and
relationships…
Compatibility by definition means to
exist together in agreement. When two people join in
agreement the relationship may or may not last, since
down the road can you determine if one person’s mind will
change? People live life and gain experience and wisdom
along the path, thus a shallow minded person might
stumble upon information that changes his/her mind
forever.
Thus, incompatibility according to
definition means to cause a disturbance by inconvenience
and distress. While the definition illustrates a
failure down the road, many relationships built on
incompatibility proved enduring, since down the road
minds changed when facts were gathered leading to
convictions.
Thus, conviction is devastating. When you
have truth, you have conviction, thus no one can argue
with you…therefore, relationships can last in friendship
and in love and relationships. Yet, outside of
relationship and in love makes room for
disaster.
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Love
and Relationships - Outrageous Love
Does your spouse like things
a little over the top? Maybe he or she
loves things that are truly outrageous.
Or maybe it’s you that loves the outrageous
situation or event. Romance can be suited
to your ‘over the top’ or ‘extreme’
tastes. Be outrageous and do something
completely unexpected in order to surprise and
romance your spouse. If you’re looking to
overdo something slightly, do something
traditional in a big way. When you think
of or come across a romantic idea, magnify it
with your imagination and do it as big as you
think.
Singing to your partner is
one of the most romantic things that you can
do. Why not take your spouse to a karaoke
bar and surprise (maybe even shock!) him or her
by singing a song that has special meaning for
both of you. Enjoy him or her
watching you with laughter and possibly tears
in their eyes. It is outrageous enough to
never forget, unless you both hit the bars
every week.
Think about something your
spouse loves. I mean that they really,
really love. If he or she loves Hershey
Kisses, find the biggest glass jar you can and
fill it with his or her favorite kind.
Mix and match flavors for a twist! If you
feel that the largest jar isn’t enough, remove
all of his or her clothes from a dresser drawer
and fill the empty drawer to the brim with his
or her favorite treat. Leave a little
note on top expressing your love for your
spouse.
Commit to making love as
often as possible with your spouse for an
extended period of time. Change your
attitude about how you view sex at the end of a
long, tiring day. Try looking forward to
it and make sure you make love every day and/or
night for at least a week. Try to go for
a month. Among most married couples
today, this is truly outrageous!
Set the timer on your watch
or cell phone so that it goes off each and
every hour. If you know that he or she is
on the computer all day, send emails reminding
them that you love them. Send a message
on the cell phone or call your spouse just to
say that you love them.
Hire a service that
specializes in skywriting. Have them
write a special message to your spouse in the
sky! You’ll be outside when he or she
sees your message. Take a walk to the
nearest pool, pond or lake and go
skinny-dipping! Be outrageously in love
with each other!
Post-it notes can be
addictive once you start using them. Use
them to go overboard by leaving post-it love
notes everywhere! You don’t have to make
them all about love. You can make them
silly notes, romantic poems quotes, song
lyrics, riddles, sexy and teasing notes or any
other topic that works for you and your
spouse. You can post them all at once all
over or you can pace yourself daily, weekly or
monthly.
Your romantic nature is
naturally within you- you only need to discover
where it is and nurture it. Many times,
romance leads to intimacy. Intimacy is
very, very romantic.
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